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Now That The Closet Is Open

This past week, President Obama finally made clear and public his thoughts on same-sex marriage. It is not all that huge of a surprise. Much will be said by all sides as to why he chose now to do this. The politics involved at that level are beyond me.

There are so many different ways to process all of this. Our culture’s current addiction to twitter and soundbites will not be helpful at all. The reality is that it isn’t going away. More and more states are passing laws that define marriage and these political wars are getting harsher and harsher.

Stating The Obvious
Let me get the obvious out of the way. As a Christ-follower, I can’t in anyway be faithful to the scriptures and condone homosexuality or gay marriage or civil unions. It is a sin. One man, one woman, for life is the scriptural standard for marriage.

However – and I had this argument with a local politician last month – I am not prepared to hang the future of the entire civilization on ‘family values.’ Making gay marriage illegal is NOT going to fix our country. It’s just a symptom of a larger problem – the insatiable selfishness of people. That is the sin problem killing our world. I’m fairly certain that no legislation will ever cure that.

Dual Citizenship
The larger point is this – as a Christ-follower, I have dual citizenship. In the Kingdom and in the USA. Sometimes they coexist peacefully, other times they do not.

As a citizen of the USA, I have the right and responsibility to vote and participate in government informed by my values. And I do so. In our system of government, I can vote, argue and challenge to get laws that confirm my understanding of truth and right. We chose this way over civil war. It’s not perfect but it’s better than the alternatives.

As a Christ-follower, I have another citizenship. One to the Kingdom. It’s not a democracy. There is one King. It’s here and I am already a part of it AND it is not yet fulfilled, not yet complete. I have no voice in what is right and wrong.

My Kingdom citizenship WILL prevail eventually, in the long run. It must prevail inside my own life. But I understand that more than likely, it will NOT prevail in the short-term. In fact, it will be persecuted and challenged. Jesus told us as much.

So while I will vote my conscious, my other citizenship tells me to expect persecution and hardship. Christ tells me to love my ‘enemies’ and be a blessing to those who curse me.

I do not want lying, cheating, or slander legal. I don’t approve of divorce or adultery or gossip or greed. However, I still hang out with ‘those’ kind of people. Some days, I am those kind of people. I still love them. ‘They’ still come to our church, worship in our church and serve. They are welcomed in our church.

Just as I can’t compromise the clarity of scriptures on issues such as homosexuality, I can’t compromise the clarity of scripture on how I am supposed to treat all people.

I will vote my beliefs as will the rest of the country. But we Christ-followers were told how the world would really come to know Jesus – and it wasn’t by how we vote.

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Apple TV (2nd Gen) vs. Roku LT vs. Online TV

We’ve dropped the cable (Uverse, technically) but I’m not sure we’re even missing it all that much. It’s been great. We hang out with each other more. Kids are reading and playing outside more. And it’s nice not having that bill at the end of the month. It wasn’t all that big of a deal. We still are able to catch most of the shows we want to see anyway, thank you, online content.

OTA TELEVISION
I remember those days of snowing images and tin foil around the antenna. OTA (Over-The-Air) HD is nowhere near that bad these days as long as you are in range of a local television. We get all the local channels very clear with a simple HD antennae. We don’t watch a lot of television like this – live sporting events, weather – but it’s there and “free” after you have the antenna. COST: $20-40 for HD antenna.

APPLE TVs
We have 2 Apple TVs.

The 1st Generation model is white, big, noisy, and runs hot. I got mine on ebay for $40. It also has a 40 GB hard drive you can store movies, music, photos, or television shows on through iTunes. You can watch YouTube through it but it does NOT have Vimeo or Netflix. We jailbroke it – legal – and now it can pull media off of our family iMac.

The 2nd Generation model of Apple TV is the small, black box. It pretty much is a small box of awesomeness. Netflix, Vimeo, YouTube, MLB.com – all great but the coolest thing is AirPlay. If you have an iPhone or an iPad – pretty much anything you can get on your phone will “AirPlay” on the television. In the 3rd Gen model, there is a mirror mode with the iPad. We have one up at the church – what an incredible teaching tool. I can zoom up maps or pictures or video from an iPad to the whole room. $99 retail.

Roku LT
It’s pretty cool. It’s basically a clumsy Apple TV. It’s got Netflix, Pandora, and Northpoint church has a channel. And Life Church and Granger Community. Pretty awesome. It’s also got Plex and Playon that allows you to stream a lot of online TV stations and whatever else you have on you computer.

It’s cool but takes a while to setup. Have to go back and forth from computer to TV. Not well laid out but it works. $40-90 depending what model you get.

Overall, we haven’t missed it all that much.

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Random Thoughts on a Tuesday Morning

I’m studying and writing and prepping for the message this week but for some reason – I am incredibly distracted. Can’t seem to figure out why so I’m going to just jot all these thoughts down here and hopefully I can get back to writing.

Theism vs. Atheism
Hearing two people debate atheism versus theism. There is a huge part of me that wants to interrupt and join in. Think they are both getting distracted on points of ‘argument’ that really doesn’t matter at all.

Both want to point to people inside their perspective ‘camps’ as either good or bad examples of their belief system. This to me is utterly ridiculous. This is like pointing to an elementary school band trying to play Mozart and say – “That Mozart guy was terrible. Who would ever write this and call it music??”

If you are going to look at examples – look at ideal from both camps and compare/contrast from there. Truth is truth and all truth will win out eventually. Don’t need the straw man or ridiculous examples to make a point.

Parenting
I’ve got a couple of friends right now just going through the ringer with their kids. I have no idea what to say to them other than…”hold on.” I find myself going back to the Prodigal Son story so much. It’s a deep, profound story on so many levels, particularly if you put yourself in the place of the dad. He had to know that the decisions that his younger son was making were stupid, hurtful and deadly. Yet he wisely recognized, he couldn’t stop him. That boy had his mind made up and the only thing he could do as a dad was hang on and be there when it all came crashing in.

I wonder how many sleepless nights that dad experienced? Praying that the son would return, would be broken enough to return but not killed or forever lost? The older son didn’t get it because he probably didn’t have kids. One day, he would. Maybe.

Brazil
We leave shortly. I love mission trips. I think they are the best kind of trips to take. Even for lost students. I know a lot of churches make a huge deal of who they take on a trip – and they should on one level. We are representing more than just ourselves when we go on these trips. We stand as representatives of our country and our God. That’s why it may be more important to make sure the student (or adult) is responsible, mature, teachable, and trustworthy – more than just “saved.”

A ‘saved’ immature, selfish kid on a trip is worse than an atheist, mature responsible kid.

Not sure why this thought has popped in my head.

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Church and the Government

What a conversation I had this morning. There’s an invitation to me to join a group of churches that are coming together to research and discover a ‘justice’ need for the city of Topeka. Then have a focus group that will next come up with a plan of action. Then they move to garner support from the community to implement that action. The examples that were given consisted of holding rallies to support the cause then lobbying the government to make changes in favor of that cause.

But here’s the conflict of the American church experience. As an American citizen, I have a right and responsibility to participate in government. That includes voting, debating, standing up for the things I am for, standing against the things I am against. That’s the system we work with. We are not a monarchy or dictatorship – we are a democracy. As a citizen, I have the responsibility to petition and lean on my government when they are leading in a way I do not agree with or spending money on stuff I don’t want. I get that on an individual level.

But this sounds a lot like what lobbyists do, doesn’t it? Common interest with a common agenda form a group that tries to influence policy and decision makers. Is this what Jesus intended for the church to be involved in?

I do understand the intent – one church might be able to help 25 but a whole community of churches can multiply that by thousands. Add in the political sway to change the system and the influence could be limitless.

However, I wrestle with two HUGE issues.

ISSUE 1: Identity Confusion
Reality paints a different picture when church and politics mix. It seldom goes well. The Religious Right may have won a lot of battles for morality but it could be argued that it did just as much damage as it healed. Folks don’t look at those kind of churches as places of hope and healing, but of moral judgement and condemnation. In the effort to afford some kind of political power and leverage, the church sold out on the opportunity to minister to real people with real hurts.

Is it the church’s role to influence policy? Civil Rights don’t happen without the church involvement, slavery doesn’t end without church involvement. Those are great examples of the church doing what is right versus what is just politics. But there are also the examples of the Salem Witch Trials, Women’s Rights, and Prohibition to counter that.

But even these examples aren’t that clear cut. There were Christ-followers that fell on both sides of all of those issues. Who was right? That’s not exactly an easy question to answer. We can tell you who WON but that’s a different question than who was right.

As a pastor, I know that my ultimate hope for healing and life change is in Christ. And the organization that God chose to work through is the church. He loves the church, gifts the church for this purpose. So no government agency or policy – as well-intended as it may be – will ever completely solve any of our social problems. And to be fair – our governments were never designed to function in this role. That’s a whole other conversation.

I’ve heard the rhetoric that if God’s people would tithe – the church would have so much money to minister to the world, governments would have no need for social services. I’m not really sure how accurate that is – but it’s a well known fact that over 75% of churchgoers do NOT tithe. Of course not all churches think to minister to those outside their walls. So the church is flawed in her delivery system of social ministry as well.

My point is this – it is clear in scriptures the church is a light house, a house of prayer, a place for healing and restoration. The question becomes does a church’s involvement in politics hinders her from accomplishing her first mission, her first calling? Or is her involvement in politics because she is being hindered by the government to do them?

ISSUE 2: Core Solutions
There is also the whole sin nature problem. No matter what the issue is, we are all sinners with a HUGE selfish streak in us. No program or system can solve that. Only Christ. The backsnacks program we do is great but…that program in and of itself is not bringing anyone to Christ. We don’t have a stack of cards with decisions for Christ because of the BackSnacks program.

So why do it? Why not just join a focus group and start holding rallies and leveraging our government to start spending money and passing policy on social justice issues?

I think one of the reasons God calls us to serve is that there are some areas in our character that He can only change in the lab of serving others. To not serve would be to miss out on our own spiritual transformation journey.

I also think that when the Church serves, she is showing the culture the true heart of God. It does more than thousands of sermons.

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So I’ll go to a couple of meetings. I’ll listen and ask questions. I’ll listen some more. But this is where I am today.

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Change number 32 on the Blog Design

I loved my old design but the truth of the matter was – I was spending more time on trying to find the right picture than the right word.

And that’s not what I started this blog in the first place.

So a renewed focus on writing and thinking…not worrying about the pictures. Sorry for the last few months of distraction on that.

I’ve got a lot to catch up on…

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Hunger Games Review

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For the fans of the book (I’ve read the entire trilogy of books with my two older kids), it’s hard to see how this movie will disappoint. It’s well done on every level – acting, sets, look. They stayed close to the book – only a couple of scenes were dropped. I was impressed how much of the book they were able to include in the film.

The actors were perfect. These are not kid actors that will have to grow into their role over the course of multiple films – re: Harry Potter. These actors nail their characters. This is the best acting from a teen/tween movie ever. There isn’t even a comparison.

The ONLY annoying thing of the movie is the first few scenes are shot with the ‘shaky’ cam for effect and it doesn’t really work. It ends up looking like someone shot the scenes with their camcorder. Fortunately, they ditch this effect after the two heroes get on the train.

Content
The biggest thing I was worried about with my 12 year old was the violence. It’s a movie basically critiquing a modern-day Rome with kids 12-18 in the arena fighting till the death. I let Camber read the same reviews I read – mainly the IMDB Parent Review – and we discussed it. Did she think she could handle it? How did it compare to other movies he had already seen?

We both decided to take the risk. Nothing else in the movie was worrisome. No language or sexual stuff.

Again, I think the directors did a great job in this area of making the point without being graphic. If anything, this approach made the death of one Tribute particularly moving. Don’t misunderstand me – there is killing. The whole movie is about killing (more on that in a minute). And it’s not grown men in battle, it’s 12 to 18 year olds. It’s not supposed to be alright and acceptable. But most of it is done off-screen with no graphic shots at all.

Discussion Points
(You can ask my kids – we actually talk about this kind of stuff when we go to the movies.)
Hunger Games in general is an observation of what happens if humanism gets full freedom in a culture. That’s about as simple as I can make it – hedonism is the core of this but particularly the hedonism of the rich and powerful over everyone else in society.

This so clearly gets painted in the movie – my 12 year-old saw it. This is what happens if there is no God or no moral law.

BUT – I countered – that’s the rub – there is a moral law, a moral code that can not – even in the most extreme of circumstances – be eradicated from humanity. Even in a death match where all know that only one can win – there are some characters that CHOOSE differently. Katniss, District 11 participants, Peeta. They CHOOSE love and honor and morality in spite of circumstance and culture that is “forcing” them to choose differently. It’s the strongest that buck the system and find another way, a better way.

And it comes at great cost – but it was their decision none the less. And love wins out…eventually. Right wins out…eventually. Long term, not necessarily in the short term.

Overall – I think the movie is great. I’d go see it again. I think it is going to break all kinds of records (it already has). What is unfortunate about this series is that the first book was the best of the bunch BY FAR. The next one is good but not as good as Hunger Games and I don’t even want to talk about the third book.

But for now – this is an outstanding movie and has lots of talking points!

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Rejected Jesus – Prepare The Room

We used this on Sunday for our Prepare the Room piece.

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Updating to Shag Carpet?

When the news broke yesterday that the Executive Committee of the Southern Baptist Convention had a recommendation on the name change AND it hadn’t come via the normal fighting, backbiting, hysterics that normally follow the SBC dealing with issues of change, I gotta admit – I was hopeful. I mean – this is a big deal for the SBC and to get this far in the discussion without WW III is a major accomplishment.

It’s refreshing to hear a majority in the convention finally understand that “Southern Baptist” is incredibly limiting and carries with it significant racist and religious baggage. It is an unnecessary stumbling block – so let’s deal with it.

Then I heard the recommendation – too many legal issues with changing SBC on top level, use a informal title instead. I understand that. I can live with that. Makes sense. Other companies do that all the time. What’s our informal label?

Great Commission Baptists.

This is the alternative to Southern Baptist? Really? Facepalm, moment. This feels like being told we are updating our house! We are so excited to update our house!! We’ve got the whole 1950′s look going on and it’s time for a makeover!! And the big update is …..

Putting in shag carpet.

Before somebody goes all “WHAT??? Are you anti-Great Commission??” on me, I am NOT anti-Great Commission. It’s just that 95% of the world has no idea what those words mean. And before the SBC starts patting themselves on the back – according to our stats on church-planting and baptisms – neither do most of our churches. Instead of removing a religious baggage term, seems like we’ve just swapped one for another.

The SBC is ‘updating’ to 1970′s shag carpet.

Big sigh….

I guess it’s an improvement. I’m not sure that anyone outside the South will use that one either. I’m glad that as a convention we are not at each other’s throat in the middle of this conversation. So, that is an improvement.

But “Great Commission Baptists” just further proves the point of what most people think about SBC anyway: we mean well and have great hearts, but are completely culturally clueless.

Maybe this will open the door for SBC churches to drop the labels and just focus on being the church.

That’s my prayer, anyway.

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JoPa’s Lesson on Legacies


This image of Joe Paterno’s shoes originally appeared on latimes.com

This originally appeared on whillschurch.org as an weekly evo.

My first memory of Joe Paterno was the 1979 Sugar Bowl. Alabama beat Penn State to be the National Champions but I vividly remember those high-water pants, black shoes and thick glasses. I think I made fun of him when my dad told me “Son, Bear Bryant is the greatest football coach to ever walk a sideline but that guy right there is a half-step behind him.” That is high praise from an Alabama fan and Penn State would become a team I loved rooting for – as long as they weren’t playing Alabama.

We have all watched Joe Paterno walk the sidelines over these 46 years. Pants rolled up to avoid getting them dirty and to save money on dry cleaning. Glasses that only he could get away with wearing. That high-pitched raspy voice piercing thru the noise of a stadium full of fanatics. We’ve heard the stories. He goes to the Trustees and demands them to RAISE the entrance requirements for Penn State. He lived in the same modest house for 45 years with a listed phone number. He gives the university 3.5 million dollars to build a new library. Penn State has never even been close to a NCAA violation. Players talk of his generosity and life lessons they learned while eating at his house.

The numbers are staggering.

2 National Championships

46 years as the head coach at Penn State.

40 winning seasons.

409 victories, most by any Division 1 head coach – yes, even more than Bear Bryant.

He was more than a coach. He was the university’s conscience.

At least, that was the image we were led to believe.

Every story on Paterno now starts with the end of his life – fired from Penn State for his role in the Jerry Sandusky scandal. Is this how he will forever be remembered?

I’m conflicted. I don’t think he should be totally exonerated, excused from all wrongdoing. Nor is he anywhere close to the tyrant that is Sandusky. Figuring out exactly where on that scale Paterno should be was never going to be easy. Now it may be next to impossible because he’s gone.

44 days between his firing and his death.

There will be no retrospective interview five or ten years from now with him. There’ll be no cool 30 for 30 film with a happy ending. Just this – a sharp pain of disappointments and questions.

1 act of cowardice.

Or was it ignorance? Or confusion? Or humiliation? Does it matter? The 1 will be remembered more than the 409.

Legacies are fragile.

The minute you start thinking about your legacy and protecting it is exactly the minute it begins to shatter. The minute a legacy becomes the point, it’s over. Disaster. Compromise. At that point, the legacy is really no longer the point. PROTECTING the IMAGE of the legacy is the point. And that is a different beast altogether.

I wonder if this is what happened with Joe Paterno. I wonder if those around him started thinking this way as well.

The 1 is remembered more than the 409.

Whether it should be this way or not is irrelevant. It IS this way. It always HAS been this way. 1 bite from the fruit. 1 act of murder. 1 strike at the rock keeps Moses out of the promised land. 1 laugh earns Sarah a sharp rebuke. 1 doubt mutes Zacharias for 9 months. 1 kiss betrays a friend and a Savior.

We all have our 1 moment. It’s why I will continue to sing the old song:

My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus’ blood and righteousness.
I dare not trust the sweetest frame, but wholly lean on Jesus’ name.
On Christ, the solid Rock, I stand. All other ground is sinking sand.

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I hate Religion, love Jesus Video

I actually stumbled on this video the day it was uploaded – January 10. I sent it to our creative team before it went all viral. Now it is everywhere with different people sounding off on it. We ultimately decided to NOT use it mainly because it didn’t exactly fit the series we were in and we thought it would work better in a small group setting.

I’m showing the video below.

Overall, I like the video. I don’t interpret this guy as trashing the Church. Some will disagree. Which is part of the problem of the video, the shortcomings of the video. I really have 3 issues with the clip – that I think would be great for a small group discussion.

First, love the “voting Republican doesn’t make you Christian” slap at the very beginning of the video. Very true. But I wouldn’t have stopped there. Jesus had words for the Zealots and the Pharisees. Anything that compromised Jesus as the solution to the problems of the world, Jesus had a quote for. Politics, education, religion.

So my question/issue to him is this – does he feel that way about all political parties? Or is it angst just reserved toward the Republicans? Democrat, Libertarian or anyone else who’s hope for our culture is in the political system is in the same boat (albeit the opposite side) as the Republicans. To limit the sting of his words to one party is doing exactly what he is railing about.

Second, I don’t think Jesus was thinking of me on the cross. That is a very ego/man-centric understanding of what is going on at the cross. The cross is all about God’s character and glory, not the value of us. Yes, we get the benefit of the transaction of sacrifice – no doubt about that. But God was thinking of Himself – his promise and vision of a world without death and sin. And dieing for the consequence was the only way that was going to happen without blowing it all up and starting over.

So I think God was thinking about that. Not me.

Lastly, I can see where he comes across as an anti-church, anti-organized anything guy. But as I read his other comments, I don’t think that is him at all. I think he cares deeply about the church and wants to be a part of a movement that sees church get closer to being a Grace Station instead of Code Enforcement. I think there are glimpses of that in the video but not overtly so. I hear a guy who loves the concept of the church as the Bride of Christ but hating the examples and experiences he’s had with her so far.

And that I think is the real shortcoming of the video. There isn’t a deep, holistic handling of the issues he brings up. They make great soundbites. At times he sounds like a prophet…statements of profound truth and conviction. Then he takes an abrupt left turn leaving that conversation to sound like an angry teenager screaming shallow, pithy cliches at his parents that he himself doesn’t really understand. There are some nuanced, deeper opportunities he missed. Instead of pushing us into deeper conversations about theology or the church and what transformation COULD look like, he’ll take the quick exit to hit another platitude.

But then again, that might have been the point of the whole exercise anyway. Maybe his point was to generate conversations and dissonance with people who otherwise wouldn’t think twice about their own understanding of grace, church, Jesus, or religion.

Like I said earlier – I like the video. I’ll keep my eyes out for the next piece they produce. My hunch is they will get better and better. I think it’s worth a watch and even worth some discussion time in a small group. I think it would spark some deeper conversations of what is the church, what marks Christianity different from all other religions, and what exactly is my role in all of that.

Here’s the video: