Just Another Reason Why We Love Our Life Group

Sunday night, the guys in the group attempted to pull off dinner for the wives/moms in our life group. We had lasagna, garlic bread, salads, and all kinds of dessert – chocolate, strawberries, cheesecake. We did have to call in the ladies for help on a couple of things but all in all – very nice effort by the fellas.

We had two couples in our group do the baby dedication in the services that morning at church. It was nice – very cool slide show and I never want to underestimate the significance of those moments. But at life group, I wanted to do something a bit different.

We went around the room and each of us gave the parents a nugget that we thought would be helpful on their journey in raising their kids under the authority of Jesus. Here is what was said:

Enjoy the time with them. It will go by very fast.

Create an environment in your home where they love being home and what to bring their friends over. Be that house for your kids.

Say “no” to your kids. And mean it. And when they get in trouble, let them feel the consequences while they are still small. It just gets harder the older they get.

What your kids want most from you is you. Not your insight or knowledge or even stuff. Just you. So say yes to that as much as you can even when you are tired, cranky, and lazy.

Pray for your kids, pray over your kids, and pray WITH your kids.

Listen to your kids. You will learn great spiritual truths from them, more than any sermon from Grant.

Don’t ever be afraid to apologize to your kids when you’ve messed up. It won’t undermine your authority, they won’t take advantage of it. They forgive quickly, it shows them true humility, they’ll grow up respecting you more for it.

What would you add?


2 thoughts on “Just Another Reason Why We Love Our Life Group

  1. It was great and I am glad and impressed at the same time that you could remember all these.
    I didn’t get to share, but what I would say to my self is…..imagine the life you want for your kids and then make that your present life style. I want them all to see Devos as a normal daily thing so I have now decided instead of sleeping in (if you consider 745 sleeping in) taylynns is to come to my bed when she gets up (sometimes its before 7…..Yikes!) and we’ll do one together. It’s the little things that will shape her….and all the kids.

    I wish someone would have told me to get over the fact that I’m not going to be a perfect mom and at times I wilI fail…….sin. I have come to realize It’s better to fail/ sin and realize it, then to fail/ sin and not even beware or care. Failing is pain, but pain is growth……


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